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Silently Hated On By Other Black Men…Are You A Victim Of It?

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I have been a victim of this phenomenon a lot in my life.  It seems like when it comes to dealing with other black men, many of them secretly wish to see me fail; many of whom I thought were on the same team as me.  These niggas are only cool with you when they COMPLETELY outdo you in every way; then they go from hating on you, to looking down on you.  Or better yet, they make sure to NEVER acknowledge you in any way that will give you any type of shine, hoping that you will DROP OFF and quit.  Then, after you are gone, they want to finally give you props.  PLEASE!!

I have been the recipient of a shocking amount of Silent Haterism from other black men for a while now; to where everything that I have done has been largely unsupported by the, so-called, brotherhood.  Many of these niggas are completely out for self, and they could care less about helping to bring up the next black man.  It has come to my conclusion, that DarkOneSun is disliked by a lot of the brothers who I thought that I was cool with.

Over the past two years, I have come out with many projects that were geared towards black men; and many of them have been largely IGNORED by the brotherhood; and they all know damn well about them.  I have seen many of these niggas support everyone but me.  At first, I thought that they didn’t know about the stuff that I did.  However, my stuff can be found all over the damn internet.  It doesn’t seem to matter what it is either; book, blog, forum, etc.  These cats seem to conveniently IGNORE everything that I do.

I could see if the projects were hidden from plain sight, but they can easily be found anywhere on Google.  I have looked on various websites, and have seen black men conversing on these websites in a way that’s laborious to them, all in an effort to keep from supporting my forum.  There’s no excuse, they all know about it.  At first I thought that I was, maybe, imagining things.  However, it appears that ole’ DarkOneSun is silently hated by many of the brothers that I thought that I was cool with.  While I support them, they NEVER support anything that I ever do.

In fact, they will support anyone BUT me, for that matter.  I have never been guilty of silently hating on another brother, like they ALWAYS seem to do on me.  Some of these niggas make me laugh, talking about how they are going to build, and all of that mess.  However, many of these cats have never built a damn thing besides a pile of rhetoric.  I also notice that many of these cats follow the women wherever they go; and do nothing but argue with them non-stop about the same old issues.

It seems like many of these cats are in a never-ending search for fame, and could care less about helping out other black men; even if there is no cost involved.  For the life of me, I am trying to figure out why am I the recipient of this mess?  I built a forum for many black men to speak on, and yet, these cats go anywhere BUT there.  I wrote a book for young black men to read, and get through society.  Yet, these young cats do nothing but send me PMs how to get through life, when I put it all in a book for the young heads to read.

Honestly, I am getting sick of many black men trying to get every damn thing for free.  They will help you out in ANY way, as long as it doesn’t benefit you at damn all.  One brother told me, one time: “How about giving away your book for free?” I guess that I am supposed to give away a damn 646 page book for free?  Yeah, they want the book, as long as I don’t benefit in ANY WAY from my own work?  I mean, how in the hell can black men ever do business with one another if they don’t want to support other black men’s endeavors?

With another group that I belong to, when my book was announced, the thread went all the damn way down to the bottom, and off of the page altogether.  Hell, I donated to their cause, and they wouldn’t even ACKNOWLEDGE mine.  I thought that we were on the same team.  However, they sure as hell don’t act like it anymore.  Along the way, I must have fell in ill-repute with some of the brethren; and I don’t have a damn clue as to what I did for that to even happen.

It should all be about trying to bring up other black men any way you can.  Especially, the ones who are trying to do things that benefit other black men; as a whole.  It looks like many of the brothers have let their egos get in the way of this happening.  It also appears that they HATE to see another brother succeed at all off of their OWN HARD WORK; and will SILENTLY HATE your ass into oblivion hoping that you eventually give up and quit.  They really kill the drive that many black men have in creating things for the benefit of other brothers.

If there’s one thing that I have never done is quit, and I will win this war.  I will be victorious.

That is all.

 

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Fickle Black Men…

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Yesterday, I read a comment on a video I made from a brother that used to be a subscriber of mine.  Now, this was a brother who used to be one of my biggest supporters on YouTube.  He would always make video responses to a lot of the videos that I made; which, I agreed with.  Anyway, I didn’t hear from this brother for a while, and then, out of nowhere, this nigga starts ripping into me out of nowhere with a comment that came completely out of left-field.

Needless to say, that I was offended as hell by the comment.  What I am trying to figure out, is what in hell is UP with black men and fickleness?  It seems like black men can’t support ANYONE for a long time without turning on them like a damn ravenous wolf.  Black people, are the only people that I have seen who turn on people for absolutely no reason whatsoever.  This fact holds true, especially, for black men.

It seems like with niggas, somebody is ALWAYS getting played out, and the minute they do, black men turn on them like hell.  They go from being an ally to a damn enemy with the quickness.  Fickleness in black men is the major reason why black men can’t work with each other; as it seems like black men ALWAYS come up with some reason not to support their fellow black man.

It’s happened to me more times than I can damn count; where I have had cats just turn on me out of nowhere…FOR ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WHATSOEVER.  I can’t stand fickle ass people; and the black community is RIFE with them.  Especially, when it comes to black men.  Hell, most niggas are more fickle than “Buddy Love” was on the damn Nutty Professor.  You never know what to expect from many of them, as many of them change-up on you faster than the late “Notorious B.I.G.” could down a gotdamn egg soufflé.

Pathetic.

That is all.

 

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When Women Have The ABSOLUTE Choice…

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Men die.

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Period.

One of the biggest travesties to ever happen to Western Society, in my opinion, was to give women absolute power in the mating game.  Western Society, is a society that caters almost completely to women; to the point where men aren’t even seen as human beings, but mere vessels put here to merely satisfy the whims and vagaries of the women in it.  The sad thing about it, is that most women want it to STAY that way.  It’s an imbalance that most women never seem to ever get sick of, and it’s an imbalance that will stay INTACT as long as Western Society still stands.

The reason being is because most men can NEVER compete with women in terms of desirability when it comes to the opposite sex; as women are FAR, FAR, more appealing to men, than men are to women.  Hell, the average woman can pull a damn man without even trying.  It may not be the one that they want, but they can get men rather easily.  Whereas men, if they aren’t gifted with stellar good looks, need some sort of external display of success to get any type of damn love from a woman.  It’s an imbalance that causes death and suicide in many men in this society; because without money or status, most men can NEVER hope to ever get love from a damn DECENT woman in this society.

Notice that I said DECENT right?  When I say decent, I am talking about the kind of woman that you can marry: Chaste, In good shape, with a pleasant personality.  These women drive a damn hard bargain in this society; regardless of what race you are as a man.  However, when you are a damn regualar black man, they don’t just drive a hard bargain, the bargain is such that it makes the average everyday black man look like “Will Smith” did on the damn movie “The Legend Of Bagger Vance”.

It’s so hard for a regular black man to get a woman who’s decent in this society, that many of them just completely give up trying, and just settle on a single lifestyle altogether.  Which, is EXACTLY what this society wants decent black men to do: waste way altogether. Most women, when they have the choice, try to go for the highest status male that they can possibly get; and many of them get dogged the hell out in the process of trying to find him.  Because black men occupy the lowest social rung in all society, women try to FORCIBLY consign black men to leftovers, knowing damn well that many of the black men that they try to force into a gotdamn nigga box are worthy of FAR,FAR, more than what they are trying to assign to them.

I can’t tell you how many times, I have had women who when they were at the peak of their game, try to snub me like I was the late “Corey Haim” off of “Lucas”, only to come at me like a damn ravenous wolf when they were dogged the hell out through their exploits of trying to find a damn big-baller.  The speed walking that I would see from women who thought that they were all that, slowed down to a damn snail’s pace when they felt like they had nothing to offer; as if I should have been ever so grateful to have their attention…Man, get the hell out of here!!

The thing that bothers me, as a black man, is the way women try to FORCE your ass to accept their worst, no matter how decent of a man you are, simply because they feel that’s all black men deserve.  If you are a black man, that refuses to do so, they will try to starve you out completely, and I mean WOMEN OF ALL RACES WILL DO THIS, in a effort to get you to break down to damn nothing and accept garbage.

Throughout my life, I have had to fight a damn constant battle of women trying to turn me into a simp, by being mean as hell toward me when they felt like they had it going on, to coming at me like a damn ravenous wolf when they had it going off.  That’s the story of the average black man.  It takes a lot of strength not to give in; as most women in this society try to turn black men into low-life beggars; who beg for things that men of other races, who have higher social status, get for nothing.

Western Society has no balance whatsoever; and the black community is even worst than the rest of society when it comes to the mating process.  Hell, most black men will NEVER know what it is to have a beautiful, high-quality black woman, and most have just given up trying; seeing as most of the black women who fall into this category are willing to give their all to men of other races, and black men their damn table scraps.  Most black men have just said the hell with it, and left American Society altodamngether to find mates, and I don’t blame them one damn bit either.

American Society, is a society that is just too damn imbalanced when it comes to the mating process.  Most women can never make up their damn mind as to what they want until they aren’t worth a damn themselves.  Women know that men have a hard time finding mates in this society, and play their gotdamn options to the fullest.  Hell, in this society, even a damn average woman thinks that she’s a dime-piece deserving of the finest of men…Pathetic.

The problem is that too damn many women think this way, to the point where they think that they can SNUB men who are TRULY on their level.  Most women have no clue as to what level they are on; because men pursue them regardless for sexual gratification.  Whereas, unless a man has money, or is extremely handsome, he will be largely IGNORED by all women until most women are so damn dogged out that their only hope is a damn good man.

Western Society, is a society, where men die all of the damn time from loneliness and grief; because they can’t get a damn single woman to love them.  Hell, in biblical times, most men were given wives for a dowry price, and I see why.  You give women the choice, and most men will become a bag of gotdamn bones waiting to be chosen.  If you lined up 25 women, and 25 men, almost ALL women will go after 1 guy, and leave the other 24 behind.

There is no balance and all, and many men in this society suffer for it.

Like I said, the worst travesty in this society, in my opinion, was giving women ABSOLUTE power in the mating game, because by doing so, most men will never know what it is to even experience love from a damn woman in America; as the women have far too many options, and the men have far too FEW of them. Therefore, the men have to take what the hell they can get in order to have companionship at all.

My advice to other men who may be reading this: in order to combat this rampant problem in American Society, you better make yourself into a damn island, one that isn’t dependent on anyone else for companionship but YOU.  Because, if you allow yourself to become solely dependent upon a woman for love, you will find yourself in a damn pine box.  Get strong in God so that he will help you overcome the feeling of loneliness through prayer and supplication; because women in this society are not right in the damn head, and if you follow them, you won’t be right in the damn head either.

That is all.

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The Beauty Of Being A Pro-Black Woman…

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Is you don’t have to worry about what the hell side you are one when things like THIS happen.  Women who are truly Pro-Black don’t have to worry about having confused ass feelings when their blackness is called into damn question in this racist society.  Sometimes, I look at black women, and wonder how can they do it.  How on earth can many black women couple with non-black men, many of whom, who hate their sons, fathers, and brothers–and even THEM–when the very same men that black women COUPLE with kill their damn sons like it ain’t nothing on the streets every day somewhere in the United States.

How in the hell do they feel seeing cases like the damn Treyvon Martin shooting when they are giving their love to men who don’t need it, while the men who DO need it–their own damn men–are left STARVING for companionship, as well as friendship?  Out here in Oakland, I look around all the damn time only to see most other races stick with their own, only to see many black women act like they have seen a gotdamn Boglin whenever a black man comes around.

At first, this stuff used to bother me, when I actually gave a damn about black women, now I look at them the same way many of them look at ALL black men every day: like they’re nothing…AT ALL. Face the fact, many black women don’t know what in the hell side they are on in this racist society.  Other women seem to understand it, including white women. However, they don’t at damn all.  Many black women think that they can straddle the damn fence when it comes to race in this society, only to find out later on, that they CAN’T.

Many black women try to ally themselves with American Society against black men, only to find themselves ingratiating themselves towards the same men that they dissed later on–Black men.  Because, when things get hot, black men are the main ones that they come looking towards to have their back, and those days are damn over.  Black men, in general, are tired as hell of many black women acting like double agents who go from dissing black men when it is advantageous to do so, to screaming “Power To The Damn People!!” when it’s not.

Also, black women have this ISSUE, of coming to black men when they have been thoroughly dogged the hell out, that has black men fleeing from their asses faster than “Ben Johnson” did in the damn Olympics from the damn USADA.  Many black women, especially when they are beautiful, go all damn OUT to land a non-black man, only to give a damn nice black man the damn non-black man’s pitiful remains. A lot of these brothers who think they have a quality black woman, will have to look on in damn horror at the damn Brontosaurus bones falling out of her damn closet from the things that she’s done.  Most black women can NEVER be a good woman to black men unless their asses have been BROKEN by thugs, white and non-black guys, or a damn hard life.

Women like this become more pro-black than damn Bobby Seale when it comes to a nigga, after they have been thoroughly dogged, of course; knowing damn well that they already gave their best to a man that’s not black.  That’s a damn insult to black men, and they know it.  They TRY to FORCE black men to accept that mess.  I don’t see any other group of women doing that mess BUT them to their men.

The bottom line: is that finding a black woman out here that is truly Pro-Black, is as rare as seeing Lara Flynn Boyle eat a damn plate of “Baby-Back Ribs”, It just ain’t happening…Period.  The only time that many black women are Pro-Black, from what I have seen, is when they have nowhere else to damn go.

In fact, it’s so rare, that it’s LAUGHABLE.  Hell, it’s easy to be Pro-Black, if you have no other option.  However, how many of them are Pro-Black when they DO have the option? And the answer you will get is a gotdamn big fat Ostrich Egg…NONE.

I gave up on that stuff, when I realized that the same women who give black men hell, when they are worth something, give non-black men absolutely NONE at damn all.  Hell, most black women act as if they got on a damn gold-chain laced with damn Kryptonite when it comes to standing up for themselves against non-black men, only to become bolder than “O-Dogg” off of “Menace II Society” in the face of a damn black man.  It’s not being themselves either, it’s called being disrespectful; a disrespect that other men don’t have to see most of the damn time.

The bottom line: seeing a black women, who is worth something, that is pro-black, is as rare as a damn Unicorn.  You may as well keep looking, because you will turn into a bag of damn skeleton bones waiting for it to manifest.

Period.

 

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Are We On The Same Team??

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On one of the videos that I made about a week ago, I received a hateful comment from one of my subscribers that really made me think.  It happened in response to me changing my tune when making videos.  When I was talking about black women, it was all good.  However, when I started showing some of my hobbies which showed my suburban roots, this nigga treated me like I committed a damn high act of treason.

From the looks of the brother, it looked like he was one of these hood cats; like I really care about that.  It just tripped me out the way this cat flipped on me, simply because I changed the tone of my damn videos.  I got tired of talking about the same damn thing over and over again in videos; as I said everything that needed to be said, in my personal opinion.  Therefore, I switched to other stuff; as I was, and am, starting to evolve into a more well-rounded person.  The minute I did this stuff, many of these cats acted like I pelted their best friends with a damn dozen of Grade A eggs.

I strongly believe that many black men have a damn narrow view of what it means to be a REAL black man; and any thing that goes against their definition of it, makes these niggas angrier than “Shonuff” off of “The damn Last Dragon.” Man, stuff like that I don’t trip off of; because I know that I can handle myself, so I don’t have live a  damn lie of having a damn thug exterior while not being able to fight myself out of a damn wet-paper bag.

Therefore, I feel FREE to like whatever I want–that’s good–because I know what being a damn real black man is.  A Real Black Man, is a black man who is his damn self.  I am going to say it right now, this war that exists between Suburban and Urban black men needs to end; because, in the end, we are ALL black men; and there is no set definition as to what a damn REAL black man is.

The fact remains that a lot of black man are insecure about showing anything that makes them vulnerable; because they know damn well society pounces on black men that are weak.  Therefore, make sure your ass ain’t weak then; while being a well-rounded man.  Because, one thing is for certain, I am sick and damn tired of seeing these niggas out here looking like gotdamn reformed GI-Joe characters looking at other black men ready to do battle, while shucking and jiving around any other entity.  Fortunately, out here in Cali, I haven’t come across many black men who are like this.  Hell, they just shoot out here, I guess…LOL!!!

The South; however, you can’t touch your toes on the damn pavement of the street without seeing some musclebound nigga wanting to do battle.  I don’t miss that mess at damn all about living in the damn South.  I went through it in High School and afterward.  It’s always seem to be a never-ending quest amongst black men to see who’s the most man; that can wear you out.  You must always, and do mean ALWAYS prove you take no damn shorts that causes many black men to hide themselves completely from people; because no one wants to see that side of black men.

It causes many black men to be one-dimensional.  If any black man is different in a way that is perceived as soft by other black men, he will get his ass tore out the frame like “Kung Fu Joe” did in “I’mma Git You Sucka!”  When I was younger, I actually gave a damn about that stuff.  However, since I am older, man I don’t give a damn what these cats think.  I know that I can handle myself out here, with ANYONE Black, White, or whatever.

I am proud of the fact that I have the confidence to BE MYSELF as a black man, as many black men out here are nothing but actors, playing a constant role for the entertainment of society.  Black men need to cut that definition of what a damn real black man is, out.  Period.  Because whether you are Suburban or Urban, a black man is a black man.  Not to mention, many of these Skinny, String-Bean niggas in the hood can’t fight a damn lick; so how in the hell are they the definition of black manhood?

Suburban black men are just as manly as Urban black man.

Period.

That is all.

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I Just Want To Be Happy…

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Throughout my life, I have seen very little happiness; as my life has been a damn difficult one.  Most of the things that I have gone through have been a result of things beyond my control.  In fact, I have spent most of my youth going through trial after trial, one bad experience, with only a few years of joy that I can remember; and that was high school.

Afterward, I went through a damn series of bad experience that literally wore my ass out.  I spent my entire youth fighting the best I could against a damn racist society, hateful people, constant illnesses, and a host of other problems.  During all of this, I have tried my best to make the best decisions so that I can look back and say, I did the best that I could; and from what I have seen, I have very little regret for most of them.  I can truly say that the things that I was going through WAS OUT OF MY CONTROL.

Therefore, I am pleased with the way that I handled them; as I tried my best to keep on going.  However, throughout this whole ordeal, I have experienced very, very, little happiness; as I have spent my damn entire life FIGHTING my ass off just to get through it.  For a long time, I thought that I would NEVER be able to have any joy in life, and the reasons for that prove to be many.  From having a damn turbulent childhood, to going through gobs and damn gobs of racism from being a black man, from battling depression, to dealing with chronic pain, and last but not least, from overcoming the abandonment of a spouse.

The thing that keeps me going is the damn hope of being happy, and getting REST from all of the things that I have gone through.  To me, happiness is like a damn rare gem that I can’t get my damn hands on; as it proves to be elusive as hell.  My whole life, I have been waiting for my time to come, and now, I finally think that it’s coming in for me.  For the first time in my life, I am starting to be happy; as I feel like a damn ominous cloud has been lifted off of my life.

In spite of everything, I have tried to position myself in a way where I could begin to enjoy my later years, and I am happy that I have done so; as it is about time for me start living, and I already am in the process of doing it.

That is all.

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Gotta Keep On Living…

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If it’s one thing that people fail to remember, is that you gotta keep on living.  A lot of people think that the decisions that they make in the present won’t affect their future.  Therefore, they live wanton lives, and live ONLY for the day; as if tomorrow will never come.  I strongly dislike people who live ONLY for the day; as they are some of the most selfish, wicked people around.  Living for the day is NOT the same thing as taking one day at a time.

Taking one day at a time gives you patience and HOPE; because looking too far ahead sometimes can completely overwhelm you.  Especially, if you are going through a very tough ordeal.  People who LIVE for the day; however, only care about enjoying themselves all the damn time.  These types of people only LIVE to have fun; without any regard for anything else.  People like this tend to hurt people all the damn time in their damn NEVER-ENDING pursuit of pleasure.

That’s all they care about is what YOU can do for them, and if you can’t do anything FOR them, then they are quick as hell to leave you alone to find someone who will.  Throughout my life, I have come across several people like this.  In fact, damn near every person that I met in my life was like this in some way or another.  People like this are always quick to leave you in their never-ending quest for fun, with absolutely no regard for tomorrow.

They sow seeds of misfortune, and reap the damn whirlwind in the end; as, in many cases, they are unable to handle the consequences of their actions.  Like I said one time in one of my earlier blog entries, I take CALCULATED RISKS for a reason, because I don’t want to live a damn life of constant REGRET.  I don’t know who told people that lie that you live only once, but they better go somewhere with that mess.  People who live by that damn philosophy usually almost ALWAYS end up suffering in the end.

That’s what people don’t understand.  Whether your old, or damn young, YOU GOTTA KEEP ON LIVING.  A lot of people have fun in their youth trying to commit every vice they can when they are young, only to pay for it like hell when they get older; and the consequences are just too much for them to bear.  No matter how old you get, you have to find a way to get through the day; and if you put yourself in a bad position when you are young, you will suffer like hell when you get OLD.

I mean what the hell are you going to do? End it all because life doesn’t pan out the way you want it to?  I doubt it.  Nobody really wants to die, and NOBODY really wants to die in bad standing with God.  Therefore, what a man soweth he shall also REAP.  A lot of people forget this big-time when they are on their damn roller coaster of sin.  One day, you have to get off of that damn roller coaster and face the music.

It’s facing the music that most people are ill-prepared for.  Because no matter how old you get, your past decisions will haunt you; and you have to live through every damn day regardless.  Looking back can be absolute hell if you have made a bad decision that can really ruin your life; because you have to think about it all the damn time.  That’s why I try my best to have fun the RIGHT WAY; with no damn regrets.  Everybody makes mistakes, but when you go out here and TRY to live a damn bad life, then that is a damn problem.

Living that full-circle mess is for fools.  I mean, why in the hell am I going to TRY to go out here and live a bad life?  I know I’m not missing out on a damn thing, so why bother?  I am not one to criticize anyone else, but I don’t want to live a damn life full of regret from bad decisions.  I have seen people who do, these are the same people who, when they are at their peak, they can’t do a damn thing for you.

Hell, they just leave you the hell alone because you are so lowly to them.  I have been treated like this by so many people that I can’t damn remember, only to see many of these same people crash and burn from their bad ass decisions.  It’s not worth it. Because, in the end, a person has to spend their whole life afterward living with the decisions that they make.  That’s why I try my best to make good decisions, because I don’t want to do something stupid that I could have possibly avoided that could ruin my future in some way, shape, or form; because hindsight is always 20/20.

The bottom line is: people can’t get mad about the bad decisions that they INTENTIONALLY made; as they still have to keep living regardless.  That’s what many people forget. They need not blame anyone but themselves for them.  Especially, when it was a decision that they MEANT to make.

That is all.

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Why Do Black Folks Even Bother To Go On Reality T.V. Dating Shows??

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If there is one thing that I never understood, is why on earth do black people KEEP going on these Reality T.V. shows?  Do they really enjoy being the only token on these shows–who never gets chosen?

I really don’t watch too much television, to be honest, because to me, T.V. is a brainwasher.  Therefore, I don’t really watch it unless I am watching boxing, an action movie, or some other sport.  However, every now and again, I may watch a reality T.V. show with the wife, and every time I see a black person on one of these shows, especially, a black man, I get tense.  Especially, when that black man has to compete with white and other non-black men for the affections of racially-biased women.

Most of the time, the brother is fighting a losing battle.  They always make sure to throw that lone black guy on a show where he is totally outgunned by nothing but these white folks who come from a white suburbia; many of whom would never date a black person.  Hell, on that show Paradise Hotel 2, I literally felt pity for the brother on that show, because it was obvious that those women weren’t trying to “go there”, if you know what I mean.  Therefore, the black guy, whose name I think was Raheim, was totally left the hell out.

Although there were a lot of women there, and even though he looked no better or worse than the other white contestants on the show, that nigga didn’t have a chance.  The women that he had to choose from were totally white-washed, or white-bred.  Therefore, the only men that they were trying to mess with on the show were white men.  At least, publicly, anyway.

Maybe it probably was different for him in real-life; which, is why he was even confident enough to go on the show in the first-place.  However, when it comes to black people, NOBODY is going to publicly choose a black man, or woman, over a white person on T.V.  Therefore, what happens is that the black person, no matter how attractive, usually gets left out.

I know that show had to deal a serious blow to that brother’s self-esteem; as NONE of the women wanted him.  He probably thought that he’d be primary choice of most of the women on the show; only to find out the reality of things.  The white men on the show didn’t look any better or worse than he did; they were just WHITE.  That fact alone made them the ideal pick for all of the women in the house.  In a couple of those episodes, I could see the hurt in that dude’s eyes when the women kept rejecting him over and over again for the other white contestants.

I saw the confidence in his eyes slowly wither away, to the point where the man started to act out.  People on the outside didn’t know why he was doing what he did.  However, me as a black man, I knew it perfectly well.  He was trying to save face due to the fact that he had NO OPTIONS in that house.  He didn’t have the black girls in the house either.  Hell, the only action that he got was when some low-grade white chick who had to get DRUNK enough to go there with him; as she had to have some type of alibi for getting with a black man.  She sure as hell couldn’t be one of the quality white chicks who would choose him. Their stock would drop like a damn rock in the real-world if they were shown getting cozy with a black man on T.V.

Meanwhile, the white men on the show were having a damn smorgasbord of ass being thrown their way, by women who were white, Asian, and black.  They were having a field day on that show, and it just goes to show you the racial politics that exist in this society when it comes to dating.  There is a definite race factor when it comes to choosing mates in this society; and blacks, in many cases come in LAST almost every time.

In the show the “Millionaire Matchmaker”, there was a brother on the show named Marcellus.  He was an ex-NFL player who came on the show on one of the episodes looking for love from Patti Stanger, the show host.  When the brother first came on the show, I could look at Patti and TELL she was strongly attracted to that brother.  You could tell by the way that she looked at him.  However, she wasn’t going to make that fact known publicly; because it would probably ruin her career.

Sometime after that show, there was an episode in which Patti came on her OWN show looking for love, and, no surprise, all of choice were white men; none of whom she was really attracted to, from what I saw.  However, the fact of the matter is, is that appearances must be kept up, and she couldn’t really CHOOSE a black dude even if she wanted to.  That’s just the way it is period; for both black men and women.

They eventually had a Millionaire Matchmaker Reunion show after the season was over; and lo and damn behold, they bring Marcellus BACK for the reunion show.  When I saw that show, I could feel the tenseness between the white women on the show and him.  The fat one, I think her name was Robin, kind of treated him in a very dismissive manner, being very careful not to really look at the brother in the eye. I tell you, some of the most racially LOYAL white women out there, are the ones that top-tier white men don’t want.  Truth be told, I could care less one way or the other.  However, those top-tier white men don’t give a damn about those women.  They are too busy being basically SLATHERED in ass by women of every race; who all want the same thing.  Truth be told, the world is a decent-looking white man’s oyster if he has a little money, due to the racial hierarchy that is set up in this society.

These women will be the staunchest supporters of white pride and all of that other mess; because they want what they can’t have: A desirable white man. Therefore, they become damn near racist in their behavior and preferences to INCREASE their desirability to these men.  Little do they know, these white men don’t give a damn about these women; making these women very bitter.  I have noticed a lot of women in this society do that mess; whether black or non-black.

They become race-specific as hell when they feel like they actually have something going for himself.  Yet, LOVE HAS NO COLOR all of a sudden when they don’t. Black men need to watch out and make sure that they don’t become a damn “Loser Choice” by one of these rejected women.  Because, you can best believe that they would NOT choose you at all if they could have what they really wanted.  No man should put up with being some woman’s consolation prize.

Anyway, back to what I was saying.  The other white chick, the one who was sitting in between the fat white chick, and the gay man, looked tense as hell; and so did Patti.  Like I said before, these niggas are wasting their time if they really think that a white woman, who is esteemed by society, is going to PUBLICLY choose them.  It’s about keeping up appearances, and they simply CANNOT do it; even if they wanted to.  In my personal opinion, the problem with Patti, the host off of the show, is that she lacks an attraction to all of the rich white men in her age bracket.  That’s why she is still single. The black guy, Marcellus, who she may have been physically attracted to, she can’t PUBLICLY date him because he is black.

It is what it is.  I notice it’s the same thing whether it’s black men, or black women.  I have seen top-tier black women go on these Reality T.V. shows, get treated worse than the damn gum on the bottom of somebody’s shoes by the white men on the show; in which they had to actually COMPETE with white women, and other non-white women, for a top-tier white man’s affections.  I rarely EVER see black women get chosen by white men on these Reality T.V. shows.

In my opinion, black people need to stop making utter fools of their damn selves by even going on these shows in the first place.  In making cases, they are fighting a losing battle.  They are playing with a fixed deck in which they are EXPECTED to lose.  Not to mention, the blow to the confidence that many of them will experience once they realize no matter how much money you have, or how pretty you are, they will NEVER choose you first because you are BLACK.

White Supremacy simply won’t allow for that to happen.

In my opinion, black people should just make or go on their OWN Reality-TV shows where they actually have a damn fighting chance; instead of going on shows where they don’t.

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Nobody Gives A Damn About Black Boys!!

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One day when I was browsing this message board, I came across a post where there was some type of program to get more black females into Silicon Valley.  This program was about starting mentorships to get more black females into computer programming.  As I read this article, a surge of anger surged through me; as it seems like there is always some type of damn program to help out the, seemingly, super-oppressed black woman, and the under-privileged black girl.

As much as many black women are LOATHED to admit, there are tons upon damn TONS of programs out here that are geared to help out black women and black girls; while there isn’t a damn thing whatsoever out here to help out black boys, and black men.  When black women fall down, they have tons of support from society to help them get back on their feet.  However, when black men get in trouble, or have ANY type of difficulty out here, they are TRULY on their damn own; without an ounce of damn sympathy from anyone. Hell, not even most black women really care about what happens to black men out here.

When I go outside out here in Oakland, that’s all I damn see is black men sleeping on park benches everywhere.  Yet, I can’t even tell you the last damn time I’ve seen a black woman HOMELESS anywhere.  Not saying that I would want that to be the case, because I don’t. However, they have all types of support from the damn government, as well as other people to keep them from even having to go that route.

I always hear black women talking about how hard they got because they are black and a damn woman, and all of that mess.  However, in reality, it’s because they are black and a damn WOMAN, that they are shielded from many of the things that black men have to face out here.  As much as a lot of black women are loathed to admit, they are NOT the most oppressed demographic in American Society.  Black MEN are, and they have always been.

Hell, the biggest complaint that I hear coming from many black women out here is when it comes to the dating arena; and even then they are basically talking about who white men are primarily choosing for marriage. Many of them could care less about what brothers want in this day and time.  However, I don’t hear many of them complaining about employment, or anything else.  Well, until now, that is; but that’s just because all of America is facing unemployment issues.

The only thing that I know, is that every time I go out here to a place of business, if there is a black person working at the place, it is almost ALWAYS a black woman; with hardly no black man in sight.  They benefit GREATLY from the minority double-quota.  While, at the same time, it’s easier to get a camel through they eye of a damn threading needle, than it is for a nigga to find a nice job out here where I live.  In many cases, black men have to basically look into entrepreneurship, or take jobs BELOW their skill-level to even have a damn job period.

There seems to be never-ending shows, documentaries, movies, and every damn thing else that is meant to boost the self-confidence of black women.  Hell, look at that show: “Black Girls Rock” for goodness sakes!!

This show did nothing but shed light on the achievements of black women.  Which, I don’t have a problem with.  However, how in the hell would many black women feel if black men had a show called “Black Men Rock!”?  Something tells me, they would complain about it, and throw shade all over the damn show, just like many of them did with the “Million Man March”.  Truth be told, I don’t really think that many black women want black men to, truly, get their stuff together.  I think that a lot of black women feel kind of smug in the belief of many black men being DYSFUNCTIONAL; as it gives THEM somebody to look down on.

Not to mention, to be so damn “OPPRESSED”, black women sure as hell have a VOICE in the media; something that black men have NEVER had.  Everybody tunes in when black women voice their damn concerns, while the voices of black men are damn near MUTED in the media.

I also notice that when it comes to doing ANYTHING for the black community, black women ALWAYS put GENDER before race; as if young black boys don’t need help also. There is something in many black women that causes them to not give a damn about their sons; which is one of the major reasons why many black boys fall off of the bus in the first place.  Hell, with the way that many black women talk, you’d think that they were a bunch of damn Amazons who’s only purpose for a man in life is to create more daughters; as many of them don’t seem to give a damn about their sons at all. Then, when these same boys grow up to be failures, or turn to a life of crime, they join in with larger society with their complaints about black men.  Sometimes, with the way many black women talk, you’d think they were an entirely different ethnic group from black men.  Hell, with the way many of them talk, you’d think you was talking to damn Klan members; due to the way many of them dog out black men so badly.

Even Oprah Winfrey made a school for black girls ONLY.  I am like damn Oprah? What about black boys? How on earth can you have a functional community when you are trying to NEGLECT the entire male gender of your race?  As much as I hate to say it, I don’t see women of other races blatantly trying to leave their men out like black women do.  It just shows a pure HATE for black manhood, in general.

Black boys, and even black men, don’t really HAVE any type of real support group out here; and that’s the truth.  In the way of role-models, many black women can look up to their MOTHERS–even if they ARE dysfunctional, at times–on how to be a woman.  They can look up to the achievements of their MOTHERS when it comes to going out here and getting theirs.  Whereas, black boys, have no damn body to look up to; and in many cases, the streets become their fathers.

It really shows the type of disdain that many black women hold for their male offspring, as well as male counterparts, in general.  Not to mention, that it seems like they COMPETE with black men in damn near everything that they do.  From dating out, to jobs, to who is the most desired, to has it the easiest in this society, it seems like many of them are competing against black men; instead of looking to work with us.  It’s not true of all of them.  However, it is definitely true for a sizable portion of them.

I also fault many black men as well, because in all actuality, many black men haven’t really been there for black boys either.  Having a black male role-model is CRUCIAL to the upliftment of black boys.  I know one thing, if I never would have come across a black man who was a Computer programmer, it is VERY doubtful that I would have went that route. Hell, I wouldn’t have known that it was possible.  I thank God every day that I came across the man I did, because it gave me a goal in life to aspire to.

Because of me seeing another black man get a degree in Computer Science, I went on and got one.  Many black men don’t have the advantage of seeing that.  However, one thing that I do know, is that after I got into computers, every black man that I know got into them with a damn passion; all from seeing one of their own do it.

That’s why black men HAVE to start support groups for black men and boys; as nobody cares about us LIKE us.  It’s for certain, that the bulk of our women don’t.  I’m sorry, but it’s true.  It’s time for black men to start taking OUR OWN concerns seriously; as nobody understands what black men have to face more than other black men do.  Quiet as kept, many black women don’t really understand–nor, do they really care–about what black men have to face.

I find it completely unfair that black women can have the freedom to care ONLY about black women, while black men have to care about the entire black community; when it’s black men doing the worst out here.  I don’t want to hear black women complain when black men create programs ONLY for black men; as they have been doing things like that ONLY for black women, for damn eons.

It’s time for black men to start taking their OWN concerns seriously.

That is all.

 

 

 

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My Review Of The Movie: “The Help”. Today’s black people have forgotten their history.

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Last night, my wife asked me if I would watch this movie called “The Help” with her.  At first, I wasn’t really that interested in it.  However, I went on and did it.  Surprisingly, the movie was pretty good.  The movie was basically about the lives of black maids in the 1950′s and 60′s.

I am not going to lie, watching the movie pissed me the hell off on several occasions.  It angered me at all of the things that blacks had to put up with back in those days.  Black people have been through a hell of a lot in this country; and although black people still got it pretty rough these days, it was NOTHING compared to the hell that black people were forced to endure back in the day.  Of course, they try to show at least ONE white person who was good–like they always do, in every move that’s like this–just so they can feel BETTER about themselves. So, they can feel like NOT all of them are like that. However, who really cares?

Just imagine being born into a world where the biggest thing that you could be was a porter or a maid?  Man, the sheer hopelessness would be enough to DESTROY the morale of most people from other races.  It just goes to show you how strong black people are, and all that we have endured as a people.

These maids, who basically nursed white people’s babies from birth, couldn’t even use the damn bathroom at the places where they worked.  They had to go as far as going OUTSIDE to go to the bathroom when they needed to go.  Also, I bet you that it had to have been HELL to be a maid for the black women that were actually beautiful during those times.  I don’t even want to think about it.  Sometimes, I look at the white folks back in those days and wonder how in the HELL did they live with themselves; treating other human beings so inhumanely.  They treated the beasts of the damn fields better than they treated black people back in those days.

Yet, these very same white folks would go to church faithfully every Sunday singing hymns to God; the absolute epitome of HYPOCRISY.  It just shows you how EVIL human beings can be.  These people would be singing hymns to the Lord on Sunday morning, only to create “Strange Fruit” all across the South on Sunday night.  Ridiculous!!

Although things have improved since the 1950′s, racism is still RAMPANT in this society.  Take it from somebody who had to spend his entire youth battling against it.  The more things change, the more they stay the same; as blacks are STILL battling the same issues now, as they were then, in many cases.

A black person’s only role in life was to make a damn white person feel better about themselves….Pathetic.  As if their lives have more value than ours.  For white people, the sky has always been the limit; while for black folks, the limit was the sky; and it was even LOWER than that back then.

What also angered the hell out of me was white women back in the day.  White women, for the most part, have ALWAYS lived a privileged existence.  Back in the day, they were pampered housewives; who’s only role back in those days was to simply sit on their asses and not do a damn thing.  From what I saw, they didn’t even raise their own kids; their mammies did.  Many of them didn’t know how to cook a meal, or anything else.

Their only role was to look pretty for their husbands, and pop out his white babies.  They truly have lived a rather easy existence, while black women lived a life of a living hell–and black men also.  White folks have always lived a privileged existence.  That’s true yesterday, and it’s true today.

What trips me out about many white folks, is that they EXPECT the finest things in life; as if it’s their birthright to have these things over everyone else.  What angers me, is that you have everybody of EVERY race who line up to give their best to them; a people who already have damn near everything as it is.

What I find to be an even MORE disgusting trend, is that you have black men and women FIGHTING over the love and affections of white people in this day and time; when they have treated black people TERRIBLY the entire time that black people have been in contact with white people.  Yeah sure, I know that it’s not ALL white people, but I can sure as hell bet that if the roles were reversed, white folks wouldn’t be adoring and fighting over blacks like blacks fight over them.

It’s obvious, that blacks of today have totally FORGOTTEN their history; because if they actually KNEW it, they would see how STUPID they look sweating people who treated their forebears like DOGS; and it wasn’t that long ago when they treated them that way either.  Hell, it’s barely been over 50 years when blacks had to drink from “Colored Only” fountains.

Now, you have black men and women fighting each other for the companionship of white folks.  Man, white people gotta feel real special; with the way many people of color literally FIGHT to be with them.  In SPITE of the way they have terribly treated other people. You have got black men and women literally ready to cut each other for the love of a white person…Pathetic.

Black men and women argue with each other over how white men and women make better mates than black men and women.  Yet, both black men and women BOTH leave out the historical privileges that white men and women both had that ALLOWED them to do these things.  Black men and women don’t cut each no slack at all in this day and time; as both are just tired of STRUGGLING period.  A black person has to literally completely ignore their history in this country in order to allow themselves to love a white person; which the generation of today has basically done.

Generation-Y doesn’t know a damn thing about the history of this country, nor do many of them seem to care at all.  If they want to get a glimpse of it, the only thing they need to do is watch some of those old movies to see how blacks got treated not even that long ago.

That is all.

 

 

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