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Fickle Black Men…

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Yesterday, I read a comment on a video I made from a brother that used to be a subscriber of mine.  Now, this was a brother who used to be one of my biggest supporters on YouTube.  He would always make video responses to a lot of the videos that I made; which, I agreed with.  Anyway, I didn’t hear from this brother for a while, and then, out of nowhere, this nigga starts ripping into me out of nowhere with a comment that came completely out of left-field.

Needless to say, that I was offended as hell by the comment.  What I am trying to figure out, is what in hell is UP with black men and fickleness?  It seems like black men can’t support ANYONE for a long time without turning on them like a damn ravenous wolf.  Black people, are the only people that I have seen who turn on people for absolutely no reason whatsoever.  This fact holds true, especially, for black men.

It seems like with niggas, somebody is ALWAYS getting played out, and the minute they do, black men turn on them like hell.  They go from being an ally to a damn enemy with the quickness.  Fickleness in black men is the major reason why black men can’t work with each other; as it seems like black men ALWAYS come up with some reason not to support their fellow black man.

It’s happened to me more times than I can damn count; where I have had cats just turn on me out of nowhere…FOR ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WHATSOEVER.  I can’t stand fickle ass people; and the black community is RIFE with them.  Especially, when it comes to black men.  Hell, most niggas are more fickle than “Buddy Love” was on the damn Nutty Professor.  You never know what to expect from many of them, as many of them change-up on you faster than the late “Notorious B.I.G.” could down a gotdamn egg soufflé.

Pathetic.

That is all.

 

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When Women Have The ABSOLUTE Choice…

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Men die.

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Period.

One of the biggest travesties to ever happen to Western Society, in my opinion, was to give women absolute power in the mating game.  Western Society, is a society that caters almost completely to women; to the point where men aren’t even seen as human beings, but mere vessels put here to merely satisfy the whims and vagaries of the women in it.  The sad thing about it, is that most women want it to STAY that way.  It’s an imbalance that most women never seem to ever get sick of, and it’s an imbalance that will stay INTACT as long as Western Society still stands.

The reason being is because most men can NEVER compete with women in terms of desirability when it comes to the opposite sex; as women are FAR, FAR, more appealing to men, than men are to women.  Hell, the average woman can pull a damn man without even trying.  It may not be the one that they want, but they can get men rather easily.  Whereas men, if they aren’t gifted with stellar good looks, need some sort of external display of success to get any type of damn love from a woman.  It’s an imbalance that causes death and suicide in many men in this society; because without money or status, most men can NEVER hope to ever get love from a damn DECENT woman in this society.

Notice that I said DECENT right?  When I say decent, I am talking about the kind of woman that you can marry: Chaste, In good shape, with a pleasant personality.  These women drive a damn hard bargain in this society; regardless of what race you are as a man.  However, when you are a damn regualar black man, they don’t just drive a hard bargain, the bargain is such that it makes the average everyday black man look like “Will Smith” did on the damn movie “The Legend Of Bagger Vance”.

It’s so hard for a regular black man to get a woman who’s decent in this society, that many of them just completely give up trying, and just settle on a single lifestyle altogether.  Which, is EXACTLY what this society wants decent black men to do: waste way altogether. Most women, when they have the choice, try to go for the highest status male that they can possibly get; and many of them get dogged the hell out in the process of trying to find him.  Because black men occupy the lowest social rung in all society, women try to FORCIBLY consign black men to leftovers, knowing damn well that many of the black men that they try to force into a gotdamn nigga box are worthy of FAR,FAR, more than what they are trying to assign to them.

I can’t tell you how many times, I have had women who when they were at the peak of their game, try to snub me like I was the late “Corey Haim” off of “Lucas”, only to come at me like a damn ravenous wolf when they were dogged the hell out through their exploits of trying to find a damn big-baller.  The speed walking that I would see from women who thought that they were all that, slowed down to a damn snail’s pace when they felt like they had nothing to offer; as if I should have been ever so grateful to have their attention…Man, get the hell out of here!!

The thing that bothers me, as a black man, is the way women try to FORCE your ass to accept their worst, no matter how decent of a man you are, simply because they feel that’s all black men deserve.  If you are a black man, that refuses to do so, they will try to starve you out completely, and I mean WOMEN OF ALL RACES WILL DO THIS, in a effort to get you to break down to damn nothing and accept garbage.

Throughout my life, I have had to fight a damn constant battle of women trying to turn me into a simp, by being mean as hell toward me when they felt like they had it going on, to coming at me like a damn ravenous wolf when they had it going off.  That’s the story of the average black man.  It takes a lot of strength not to give in; as most women in this society try to turn black men into low-life beggars; who beg for things that men of other races, who have higher social status, get for nothing.

Western Society has no balance whatsoever; and the black community is even worst than the rest of society when it comes to the mating process.  Hell, most black men will NEVER know what it is to have a beautiful, high-quality black woman, and most have just given up trying; seeing as most of the black women who fall into this category are willing to give their all to men of other races, and black men their damn table scraps.  Most black men have just said the hell with it, and left American Society altodamngether to find mates, and I don’t blame them one damn bit either.

American Society, is a society that is just too damn imbalanced when it comes to the mating process.  Most women can never make up their damn mind as to what they want until they aren’t worth a damn themselves.  Women know that men have a hard time finding mates in this society, and play their gotdamn options to the fullest.  Hell, in this society, even a damn average woman thinks that she’s a dime-piece deserving of the finest of men…Pathetic.

The problem is that too damn many women think this way, to the point where they think that they can SNUB men who are TRULY on their level.  Most women have no clue as to what level they are on; because men pursue them regardless for sexual gratification.  Whereas, unless a man has money, or is extremely handsome, he will be largely IGNORED by all women until most women are so damn dogged out that their only hope is a damn good man.

Western Society, is a society, where men die all of the damn time from loneliness and grief; because they can’t get a damn single woman to love them.  Hell, in biblical times, most men were given wives for a dowry price, and I see why.  You give women the choice, and most men will become a bag of gotdamn bones waiting to be chosen.  If you lined up 25 women, and 25 men, almost ALL women will go after 1 guy, and leave the other 24 behind.

There is no balance and all, and many men in this society suffer for it.

Like I said, the worst travesty in this society, in my opinion, was giving women ABSOLUTE power in the mating game, because by doing so, most men will never know what it is to even experience love from a damn woman in America; as the women have far too many options, and the men have far too FEW of them. Therefore, the men have to take what the hell they can get in order to have companionship at all.

My advice to other men who may be reading this: in order to combat this rampant problem in American Society, you better make yourself into a damn island, one that isn’t dependent on anyone else for companionship but YOU.  Because, if you allow yourself to become solely dependent upon a woman for love, you will find yourself in a damn pine box.  Get strong in God so that he will help you overcome the feeling of loneliness through prayer and supplication; because women in this society are not right in the damn head, and if you follow them, you won’t be right in the damn head either.

That is all.

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It’s Not About The Looks, It’s About The Purity…

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When it comes to women's overall perception of black men, the viewpoint is almost, always a negative one.  Most women, in this society, feel as if black men will accept them no matter what they've done in their past.  For some strange reason, women in this society think that black men have absolutely no problem whatsoever with them having whorish backgrounds.  Unfortunately, for many black men, they just say to hell with it and accept inferior women period just to have a damn woman in their life.  It pisses me off the way women in this society try to FORCE black men to accept second-hand garbage simply off of the strength of them being black men PERIOD.

They do it because they feel as if black men don't deserve anything more than that.  These are the types of women who are basically whored out from having sex with tons of men, when they are at their best.  They deny companionship to black men who are well-deserving, only to try to badger these men for companionship when they finally come to a damn epiphany that all men are the damn same…Pathetic.  What bothers me the most about these women, is that they try to make good black men suffer with loneliness by routinely denying them companionship when they are actually marriage material.  

It makes good black men lives a living hell; because every time a black man turns around he is always placed into a damn nigga box that he can't get out of with women; the nigga box of loneliness, alienation, and isolation.  Good black men are punished for simply trying to be upstanding men period.  It's funny as hell how black men are the only men who are routinely PUNISHED for simply trying to be good.  In many cases, they have NOTHING to look forward to when it comes to women in the black community; as the only thing many black women try to do to black men who are like this is consign them to GARBAGE; while non-black men get the absolute BEST of black women, or thuggish, ruggish, niggas. 

The thing about it, it's not just black women either.  Women of other races do absolutely the same damn thing; leaving many good black men in American without viable options in America when it comes to women.  Like black women, they try to FORCE inferiority onto black men by coming onto to good black men stronger than the ass of a gotdamn stallion by being so ingratiating that you just know something is wrong with that woman; because anytime a woman in this society is at her best, they are biggest SNOBS to black men that anyone has ever seen.

What trips me out about ALL black women in this society, is that they ALL feel like they deserve the best black man around; even when THEY are at the absolute WORST themselves.  The thing is, women think that the only thing that they have to do is make up their outside and make it look pretty, while their inside is pure garbage; full of whoredom, bad choices, and big mistakes.  I don't give a damn about a woman's outside, if her inside is garbage complete with a damn dubious past. 

They sure as hell don't go to men of other races with that mess.  That's for damn sure.  For some strange reason, many women in this society who seem to virulently chase after black men seem to be oversexed too.  Who in the hell cares how fine a woman is, if her ass if fine for everybody else around AND you?  When many women are beautiful in this society, they feel as if they just CANNOT give it all to a damn black man until they "Live A Little", and get their asses ruined completely altogether.  Then, they want to come back to a nice black guy with tons of damn issues that came from being DOGGED by other men who they thought where superior choices. 

No black man should accept such a crappy deal.  Women like that don't deserve good black men, and they shouldn't get them PERIOD.  What these women don't understand, is that it's not about the damn looks, it's about the PURITY.  A good black man, who works hard in life, deserves a gotdamn prize.  Period.  He should accept no less; as these women NEVER give less to men that aren't black at damn all.  However, a black man must just accept WHATEVER just to have a damn woman in their life?  They must crazier than gotdamn jailhouse rats.  These women try to force their inferior asses on good black men by talking about them having a lack of options; when the only reason that's the case is because these men want to have good women to marry. 

Most women in this society all dance to the same tune…White-Worship.  These women will love a man simply because he is WHITE, and will hate a man simply because he is BLACK.  It's not even about the character with most women in this society; ESPECIALLY black women.  They only seem to see the character of a damn man when he is in the visage of anything other than a damn nigga.  When he is black, they wear him the hell out with their issues, and try to destroy him completely, only to become more supportive than "Florida Evans" was off of "Good Times" to a man that's not black. 

I have seen it far too many times that it's not even funny.  They are willing to give the best of themselves, and all of their love to men who don't even value them as human beings when they are at their best.  Meanwhile, black men who need the love can't even GET the damn love from black women that are decent.  They are the only women that I have seen do this to their men wholesale.  It forces decent black men to accept LESS and LESS in order to have a woman in their life; and they only do it due to loneliness of being starved out period by women in this doomed society. 

These same women try to make themselves look pretty in order to fool good black men with a pleasant personality to match; it's all a facade in order TRAP good black men into marrying them after they have done all sorts of damn dirt.  It's not fair for a black man, who has struggled all through his life in order to make something of himself, to accept such a woman into his life.  What astonishes many black men, is that these women are more unappreciative than "Scrooge McDuck" was in "Duck Tales" of the riches in his damn treasure chamber.  They act like THEY are doing YOU a favor by simply being with you; as if you should be as pleased as gotdamn fruit punch that they even gave you the time of day.

Women in this society try to starve decent black men out in this society by making sure that you remain OPTION LESS due to societal ostracism; so that these men will be so lonely that they will accept ANYTHING that comes their way.   It takes a lot of strength for a black man to hold out for woman that's good; as no one thinks that you are deserving of it.  Like I said, it's not the looks that are the most important to me, it's the PURITY of the woman, that is; because who wants to go somewhere where everybody else has already been?

Most of the time, the women that I want are already beautiful anyway.  However, if she's a reformed whore, why do I care?  Beautiful women are a dime-a-dozen; CHASTE women aren't.

That is all. 

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Gotta Keep On Living…

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If it’s one thing that people fail to remember, is that you gotta keep on living.  A lot of people think that the decisions that they make in the present won’t affect their future.  Therefore, they live wanton lives, and live ONLY for the day; as if tomorrow will never come.  I strongly dislike people who live ONLY for the day; as they are some of the most selfish, wicked people around.  Living for the day is NOT the same thing as taking one day at a time.

Taking one day at a time gives you patience and HOPE; because looking too far ahead sometimes can completely overwhelm you.  Especially, if you are going through a very tough ordeal.  People who LIVE for the day; however, only care about enjoying themselves all the damn time.  These types of people only LIVE to have fun; without any regard for anything else.  People like this tend to hurt people all the damn time in their damn NEVER-ENDING pursuit of pleasure.

That’s all they care about is what YOU can do for them, and if you can’t do anything FOR them, then they are quick as hell to leave you alone to find someone who will.  Throughout my life, I have come across several people like this.  In fact, damn near every person that I met in my life was like this in some way or another.  People like this are always quick to leave you in their never-ending quest for fun, with absolutely no regard for tomorrow.

They sow seeds of misfortune, and reap the damn whirlwind in the end; as, in many cases, they are unable to handle the consequences of their actions.  Like I said one time in one of my earlier blog entries, I take CALCULATED RISKS for a reason, because I don’t want to live a damn life of constant REGRET.  I don’t know who told people that lie that you live only once, but they better go somewhere with that mess.  People who live by that damn philosophy usually almost ALWAYS end up suffering in the end.

That’s what people don’t understand.  Whether your old, or damn young, YOU GOTTA KEEP ON LIVING.  A lot of people have fun in their youth trying to commit every vice they can when they are young, only to pay for it like hell when they get older; and the consequences are just too much for them to bear.  No matter how old you get, you have to find a way to get through the day; and if you put yourself in a bad position when you are young, you will suffer like hell when you get OLD.

I mean what the hell are you going to do? End it all because life doesn’t pan out the way you want it to?  I doubt it.  Nobody really wants to die, and NOBODY really wants to die in bad standing with God.  Therefore, what a man soweth he shall also REAP.  A lot of people forget this big-time when they are on their damn roller coaster of sin.  One day, you have to get off of that damn roller coaster and face the music.

It’s facing the music that most people are ill-prepared for.  Because no matter how old you get, your past decisions will haunt you; and you have to live through every damn day regardless.  Looking back can be absolute hell if you have made a bad decision that can really ruin your life; because you have to think about it all the damn time.  That’s why I try my best to have fun the RIGHT WAY; with no damn regrets.  Everybody makes mistakes, but when you go out here and TRY to live a damn bad life, then that is a damn problem.

Living that full-circle mess is for fools.  I mean, why in the hell am I going to TRY to go out here and live a bad life?  I know I’m not missing out on a damn thing, so why bother?  I am not one to criticize anyone else, but I don’t want to live a damn life full of regret from bad decisions.  I have seen people who do, these are the same people who, when they are at their peak, they can’t do a damn thing for you.

Hell, they just leave you the hell alone because you are so lowly to them.  I have been treated like this by so many people that I can’t damn remember, only to see many of these same people crash and burn from their bad ass decisions.  It’s not worth it. Because, in the end, a person has to spend their whole life afterward living with the decisions that they make.  That’s why I try my best to make good decisions, because I don’t want to do something stupid that I could have possibly avoided that could ruin my future in some way, shape, or form; because hindsight is always 20/20.

The bottom line is: people can’t get mad about the bad decisions that they INTENTIONALLY made; as they still have to keep living regardless.  That’s what many people forget. They need not blame anyone but themselves for them.  Especially, when it was a decision that they MEANT to make.

That is all.

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My Review Of The Movie: “The Help”. Today’s black people have forgotten their history.

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Last night, my wife asked me if I would watch this movie called “The Help” with her.  At first, I wasn’t really that interested in it.  However, I went on and did it.  Surprisingly, the movie was pretty good.  The movie was basically about the lives of black maids in the 1950′s and 60′s.

I am not going to lie, watching the movie pissed me the hell off on several occasions.  It angered me at all of the things that blacks had to put up with back in those days.  Black people have been through a hell of a lot in this country; and although black people still got it pretty rough these days, it was NOTHING compared to the hell that black people were forced to endure back in the day.  Of course, they try to show at least ONE white person who was good–like they always do, in every move that’s like this–just so they can feel BETTER about themselves. So, they can feel like NOT all of them are like that. However, who really cares?

Just imagine being born into a world where the biggest thing that you could be was a porter or a maid?  Man, the sheer hopelessness would be enough to DESTROY the morale of most people from other races.  It just goes to show you how strong black people are, and all that we have endured as a people.

These maids, who basically nursed white people’s babies from birth, couldn’t even use the damn bathroom at the places where they worked.  They had to go as far as going OUTSIDE to go to the bathroom when they needed to go.  Also, I bet you that it had to have been HELL to be a maid for the black women that were actually beautiful during those times.  I don’t even want to think about it.  Sometimes, I look at the white folks back in those days and wonder how in the HELL did they live with themselves; treating other human beings so inhumanely.  They treated the beasts of the damn fields better than they treated black people back in those days.

Yet, these very same white folks would go to church faithfully every Sunday singing hymns to God; the absolute epitome of HYPOCRISY.  It just shows you how EVIL human beings can be.  These people would be singing hymns to the Lord on Sunday morning, only to create “Strange Fruit” all across the South on Sunday night.  Ridiculous!!

Although things have improved since the 1950′s, racism is still RAMPANT in this society.  Take it from somebody who had to spend his entire youth battling against it.  The more things change, the more they stay the same; as blacks are STILL battling the same issues now, as they were then, in many cases.

A black person’s only role in life was to make a damn white person feel better about themselves….Pathetic.  As if their lives have more value than ours.  For white people, the sky has always been the limit; while for black folks, the limit was the sky; and it was even LOWER than that back then.

What also angered the hell out of me was white women back in the day.  White women, for the most part, have ALWAYS lived a privileged existence.  Back in the day, they were pampered housewives; who’s only role back in those days was to simply sit on their asses and not do a damn thing.  From what I saw, they didn’t even raise their own kids; their mammies did.  Many of them didn’t know how to cook a meal, or anything else.

Their only role was to look pretty for their husbands, and pop out his white babies.  They truly have lived a rather easy existence, while black women lived a life of a living hell–and black men also.  White folks have always lived a privileged existence.  That’s true yesterday, and it’s true today.

What trips me out about many white folks, is that they EXPECT the finest things in life; as if it’s their birthright to have these things over everyone else.  What angers me, is that you have everybody of EVERY race who line up to give their best to them; a people who already have damn near everything as it is.

What I find to be an even MORE disgusting trend, is that you have black men and women FIGHTING over the love and affections of white people in this day and time; when they have treated black people TERRIBLY the entire time that black people have been in contact with white people.  Yeah sure, I know that it’s not ALL white people, but I can sure as hell bet that if the roles were reversed, white folks wouldn’t be adoring and fighting over blacks like blacks fight over them.

It’s obvious, that blacks of today have totally FORGOTTEN their history; because if they actually KNEW it, they would see how STUPID they look sweating people who treated their forebears like DOGS; and it wasn’t that long ago when they treated them that way either.  Hell, it’s barely been over 50 years when blacks had to drink from “Colored Only” fountains.

Now, you have black men and women fighting each other for the companionship of white folks.  Man, white people gotta feel real special; with the way many people of color literally FIGHT to be with them.  In SPITE of the way they have terribly treated other people. You have got black men and women literally ready to cut each other for the love of a white person…Pathetic.

Black men and women argue with each other over how white men and women make better mates than black men and women.  Yet, both black men and women BOTH leave out the historical privileges that white men and women both had that ALLOWED them to do these things.  Black men and women don’t cut each no slack at all in this day and time; as both are just tired of STRUGGLING period.  A black person has to literally completely ignore their history in this country in order to allow themselves to love a white person; which the generation of today has basically done.

Generation-Y doesn’t know a damn thing about the history of this country, nor do many of them seem to care at all.  If they want to get a glimpse of it, the only thing they need to do is watch some of those old movies to see how blacks got treated not even that long ago.

That is all.

 

 

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The Extreme Racism Of Many Asian Women In California…

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I don’t know about other parts of the country, but there are many, MANY, Asians that live out here in the Bay.  In fact, the Bay Area, California, has one of the largest populations of Asians in the whole United States.  In fact, where I came from, there weren’t hardly any Asians at all on the East Coast; back then, anyway.  Hell, I had only see maybe a few in my lifetime, and they were nice people, from what I remembered.

However, when I came to live in the Bay Area, the Asians that I dealt with out here were a completely different story entirely.  The Bay Area is a very specious place.  People are always talking about how “liberal” Bay Area is.  However, once you stay out here for any length of time, you’ll begin to realize that the Bay Area is absolutely NOTHING but a damn liberal lie.  I originally came from the South, and even though I DID experience racism, it was NOTHING like the crap that I experienced here.

You’d think that with the Bay Area being one of the most “diverse” places in the country, that it would be completely different; however, it was just the opposite.  Hands down, the Bay Area, California has got to be one of the most RACIST places that I have ever lived. The denizens of the Bay Area practice some sort of Caste system that would rival damn 15th Century Jolly Old England.  Out here, Whites are at the top, everyone else is in the middle, and blacks are at the absolute bottom; especially black American men.  The people out here want it to STAY that way also.  Any attempts on the part of blacks, and especially black men, to pull themselves up out of their  beleaguered position is met with stiff opposition from all sides, and all races.

Back where I lived, I NEVER felt the same type of class racism that I have out here. Everybody is in on it.  From Whites, to Asians, to everyone else in-between.  Although I have experienced racism from damn near every angle out here, the absolute WORST proponents of racism that I have EVER experienced is none other than Asian women. From my personal experiences, Asians are pretty racist in general, whether they be the men or the women.  However, the women are just on an entirely different level from any group of people that I had the displeasure of dealing with.  Hell, at least I can say that I had some good experiences with Asian men.

In fact, one of my colleagues from the University that I graduated from was an Asian guy. However, when it comes to the women, I can’t think of one damn good experience that I had out here…Not one.  They were almost ALL bad; and when I say bad, I mean that they were bad as hell.  I have never seen a group of people who could be so damn EVIL as Asian women could be.  What also trips me out about many Asian women, is that their racism is CALCULATED, they know WHO, and WHO NOT, to be racist towards, which makes it all the more worse.

And when I say racist, I am not talking about in terms of dating either.  I am talking about IN GENERAL.  I could care less if their biggest goal in life is to have a damn white man’s baby.  I am talking about the way that they treat other people PERIOD is a damn problem to me.  They have to make it a damn practice to dishonor you in any subtle way that they can.  ESPECIALLY, if you are a black man.  Sometimes, I am absolutely ASTONISHED at the amount of effort that people put into being BIGOTS.  Yet, these same people probably see themselves as “good” people.  You can’t be a damn good person if you mistreat people for no damn reason; and that goes for anybody of ANY race.  In spite of my views on things, I don’t go around mistreating ANYONE for no reason.

Like I said before, I have dealt with disrespect from everybody of EVERY race out here. However, hands down, they are the WORST that I have EVER dealt with.  That’s why I laugh when I hear niggas extolling the virtues of these women.  I am thinking to myself, you have got to be joking bruh.  These cats must have NEVER had the damn displeasure of being around a bunch of them.  From my personal experiences with Asian women, many of them are white-worshiping fools who will engage in anti-black bigotry to bond with their white guy. They have such a damn aversion for dark-skin that out here in the Bay, that I see Asian women walking around with damn umbrellas on the sunniest of days, with sun-visors to match.  Pathetic.

To them every black man is bad SOLELY because he is black, and every white man is good SOLELY because he is white.  Honestly, most Asians, in general, think like this.  Hell, don’t think that I am letting the Asian man off of the damn hook, because in terms of being racist, many of them aren’t that far behind their racist women.  I am sure as hell not saying this stuff because I actually care about the plight of the Asian man; because they sure as hell don’t care about yours as a black man.  In fact, many of them feel like you DESERVE to be discriminated against.  Hell, many Asians see themselves as “honorary whites”: both men and women, and they act accordingly.

People think that black folks aren’t observing them.  Nah, we are OBSERVING you just like you are FOREVER observing us.  We are well-aware of your pathologies, just like you all are of ours.  What trips me out about many of these “other” minorities, and white folks as well, is that they can dish that racism out like nobody’s damn business.  However, they can’t take what they dish out at all.  These other minorities will be absolutely WICKED towards a black person.  However, let a damn white person discriminate against them, and they literally melt like the damn “Wicked Witch Of The West.”

WEAK.

From my personal experience, Asian women embody this to a damn tee.  Many of them are absolutely HATEFUL towards blacks.  Yet, the minute a white person discriminates against them, they are ready to slit their own damn wrists.  Weak as hell.  I remember one time when I was watching television several years back, there was this case of this Asian woman getting denied a dorm at Stanford University by this white woman, this Asian woman was balling out of damn control.  She was crying worst than “Pee-Wee Herman” did off of “Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure” when he lost his shiny red bike.  Crying her damn eyes out, because she had been discriminated against.  I was like “give me a damn break”.

As racist as many of them are to people who THEY feel are beneath them, they have some damn nerve.  Especially, Asian women.  They will dishonor your black ass for absolutely NO REASON at all solely because of the hue of your damn skin.  They know it’s the truth too.  Don’t even read this and try to deny it. Believe me, I have had to deal with that racist, “You have no honor because you are black”, bulls**t bigotry for over a decade. I know full-well how they get down; and believe me it ain’t changing no time soon either. That racism is passed down from parent to child in their culture.  They are as racist NOW, as they were then when I first came out here over 10 years ago.

They even had a running joke told by an Asian man that said: “You know you’re Asian when…” Answer: Your parents hate black people.

The funniest thing about it, is that the main people trying to act black out here are Asians. It’s hilarious.  The women are out here dressing like damn “Nikki Minaj” and the men out here are all trying to look like 50-Cent or Jason Derulo; rocking skinny jeans with their hats to the damn back.  It’s pure comedy.  They even call each other “nigga” for goodness sakes!!  Yet, they hate blacks with the damn fervor of a damn 18th Century Klansman.  I even heard a damn Asian man cranking up “N.W.A”, Niggaz-4-life.  I am thinking to myself, what in the hell does a damn Asian man know about N.W.A. for goodness sakes?  Non-blacks trip me out with their “APING” of black culture.   They love the culture, but hate the damn people.  Utterly Astonishing.

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Why I Take Calculated Risks…

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When it comes to taking risks, my stance may be a lot different from other people.  The adage of many people is just take a chance, because you never know how it may turn out.  However, I disagree with this.  I  have learned throughout my life that it is FOOLISH to take unnecessary risks; as you have to anticipate the cause and effect of everything.  Don’t get me wrong, I do take risks.  However, if and when, I do take risks, those will be risks where I have a damn good chance of reaping a high reward; at very little loss to my myself.

Personally, I could care less what anyone has to say about it either; as THEY aren’t the ones that have to live with consequences of taking such risks.  YOU ARE.  I don’t want to risk a damn thing that will leave me in a bad position in the future.  I don’t like taking risks that would leave me wide open to unnecessary pain and scrutiny.  A lot of people out here take risks without thinking about the outcome behind the risks they take.  In many cases, they THINK that they can handle it, until they realize that it is a hell of a lot harder than they expected. Those consequences tend to hit them like a ton of damn bricks, and they have to spend a lifetime full or regret wishing that they could turn back the damn clock.  Believe me, I know.  However, some risks are unavoidable.

For instance, let me give you an example: Evel Knievel.

This man was one of the best stuntman in history; pioneering the, so-called, American daredevil.  The stunts that this man pulled were unbelievable in his lifetime.  However, if you would have seen the way that man had to spend the remaining years of his life, you’d realize that it wasn’t even worth it.  He spent the remaining years of his life in excruciating pain from all the accidents that he had in his youth.  Although I give the man props for the stunts that he did, I think I’d pass on that.  Nothing, and I mean NOTHING, beats out good health; take it from someone who has been battling  health problems for years trying to get back to that state.

I guess some people are just natural risk-takers, people who get a THRILL out of the damn unexpected.  However, I, myself, am NOT one of them.  I like taking risks on things that have a high probability of me coming out successful.  Or, if I am UNSUCCESSFUL, I don’t regret taking the risk.  I just don’t go out here and take risks for no damn reason; as that is just flat-out STUPID to me.  The bottom line: you only have one life, and if you are out here taking foolish risks, YOU AND YOU alone have to live with the consequences of it; in many cases for the rest of your life.  I have learned over time to really plan out things so that I won’t end up feeling like a damn fool in the future.

I have seen, and sometimes, even been the victim of the consequences of foolish chances, and the only thing that it left me with was regret.  I didn’t feel good for taking the chance either.  Especially, seeing that it was something that I could have avoided.  However, you do live and learn no doubt, and there is no point in crying over spilled-milk.  However, I always try my best in the future to make sure that I don’t the same mistakes the next-time around.

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Do As I Say, But Not As I Do? The Double Standards That Non-Blacks Have For Blacks When It Comes To Equal Treatment…

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When it comes to fair treatment, let’s just be honest, blacks are the most discriminated against demographic in American Society–and the world, for that matter.  For some reason, nobody has a problem discriminating against blacks.  I have often wondered how so many people can be hateful towards blacks without so much as a damn tinge of the conscience.  It takes effort to be hateful towards people; as it is much easier, and much more natural, to be kind to people instead.

Many of these non-black groups who are racist against blacks act as if blacks should just sit back, shut the hell up, and take the mistreatment.  They must be crazy!  When I first came out to California, I was utterly ASTONISHED by all the hate that I received; because it was something that I never would have expected.  I wish someone would have told me this is the way things were, because I was caught totally unawares by all the HATE that I received from these other groups of people.

I always experienced SOME degree of racism when I lived in the South.  However, it was never all-encompassing as it was when I moved out west to Cali. Even though I met some racist white people in the South, I also met white people who were good as well.  In Cali; however, it got to the point where I was ingesting so much damn hatred from these other groups of people, that I completely shut down, and went totally into a damn depression.  I was in absolute disbelief that this was the world that I would have to live the rest of my life in.  A world, where you are completely DESPISED because of something that you had no control over.

The effects that all of that racism and hate had on me were tremendous.  I went from being a damn 4.0 College student to subsequently dropping completely out of school for a while due to depression.  It got to the point where I no longer knew what I wanted out of life anymore.  I saw all of my dreams fade away in my mind.  I began to develop severe stomach problems as well as terrible anxiety from race-related stress.  My life began to turn into a damn nightmare.  It took a whole helluva lot of strength to get back out  there again this hateful society, and keep pushing.  Especially, in light of the fact that most non-blacks were still racist as HELL towards blacks out here.

Honestly, and this is my personal opinion, I believe much of the racism from blacks towards other ethnic groups is REACTIONARY.  When I first came out here to California, I was awestruck by all of the damn diversity.  My first thought was NOT to go around being hateful to others simply because they were different from myself.  In fact, I envisioned that I would have friends from every ethnicity, as well as being exposed to a whole lot of different experiences as well.  However, much to my dismay, this is NOT what happened at all.  What I wound up finding out is that my black ass would be hated at every turn, and that I would wind up ISOLATED and ALONE.

The atmosphere out here in the Bay hasn’t really changed since I first moved out here.  Most of these other races are just as racist as they day I came out here in 1997.  When I first came out here, and for quite some time after that, I would simply sit back and TAKE the crap that these bigoted ass other races was dishing out to me.  I thought that I was being the bigger man by doing so.  Until, I began to realize that A.) It wasn’t going to stop.  B.) i was getting punked by doing so.  And C.) these other races didn’t give a damn one way or the other.  They could care less about the effect that it had on me, because to them, my black ass was DESERVING of the mistreatment simply due to me being a black man.

I grew tired of taking crap from people who were no better than what I was.  I got tired of APOLOGIZING for simply being a damn black man in their presence; as if I, myself, don’t have a right to EXIST.  I got tired of not saying a damn thing while Asians, Whites, Indians, Hispanics, and every damn body else would be racist towards me for no reason at all.  I didn’t do a damn thing to these people; and I knew that I was being treated unjustly.  Therefore, I began to RETALIATE.

There is no way in the world that a human being can constantly INGEST that much hate without it affecting him or her adversely.  Yet, black men are expected to do it, and shut the hell up about it. That’s the main reason why you have many niggas in this society who have gone completely insane.  It’s also another reason why so many black men in this society simply GIVE UP.  Everybody tries to make black men feel crazy for discussing the things that they go through that they KNOW to be true.  It will drive somebody CRAZY if they can’t find somebody to talk to.  In this society, RACE is the damn big elephant in the room that everybody knows exist, but NOBODY wants to talk about.

What trips me out is how SHOCKED many people are when you treat them EXACTLY like they TREAT YOU!   These other groups of people expect for blacks to sit back, shut hell up, and take being mistreated by them.  Not to mention, how many of these groups of people can’t even TAKE what the hell they dish out.  What surprised me the most being out here in California, is the SHEER number of other MINORITIES who are racist as hell towards blacks.

I was–and still am–catching pure hell from Asians, Hispanics, Indians, even Africans, for simply being a damn American Black man.  These are the same sycophantic minorities who turn and around CRY when a white person mistreats them.  Yet, they have no problem, none whatsodamnever, hating on blacks without reason.  Yet, when you treat them EXACTLY like they treat you, they want to sit back and cry foul?  They must be sniffing the purest form of Elmer’s glue that money can buy. I will never take their crap again without a rebuttal of some sort.  Damn that.

They need to know that it is NOT okay to discriminate against black people and get away with it.  The resistance from blacks has to be ongoing; a CONTINUUM.  This especially holds true for the American Black Man, because NOBODY feels like we should even be ENTITLED to the smallest bit of common courtesy.   People REALLY have no problem doling out the hatred towards niggas; which, is exactly why you have so many dysfunctional black men who exist out in society.  Many cats are literally going crazy out here trying to find ways to cope with all of that damn HATE.

I may not be able stop mofos from hating me.  However, I can definitely CHANGE how I choose to respond to it; and passivity in face of being humiliated is not the damn business. One thing that I have definitely learned is to NOT let some blatant act of bigotry go UNCHECKED; especially, if I am bothered by it.  I don’t give a damn what many of these non-blacks think; because the bulk of them are going to dislike you regardless simply because of the hue of your damn skin.  The reasons why they dislike blacks, in many cases, don’t have a damn thing to do with what’s right or wrong, but with what’s WHITE OR BLACK. They are the ones that are in the wrong; NOT ME.

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Can A Black Man Ever Ride Off Into The Sunset…

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A damn WINNER??

Jack Johnson, Joe Louis, Sugar Ray Robinson, Muhammad Ali, Michael Jackson, Mike Tyson, O. J. Simpson, Roy Jones Jr., Barry Bonds, Tiger Woods…Damn!!  Can a black man EVER go from start to finish in something and end in a victorious position?  Many, many, have tried, and only a few have been able to get out of the game ON-TOP.  

What’s sad about it, is that many of the reasons why black men always fall from grace are due to the actions of Black Men Themselves.  It seems like the higher a black man rises, the harder they fall; and most have not been able to get out like they originally went in. Only a few black men have been smart enough to get out of the game a winner; while many either wait around too long, or get too high on themselves and fall hell off from sheer HAUGHTINESS and PRIDE.

Look at Mike Tyson??  One thing that I can never, and will EVER understand, is how on earth this nigga allowed over 200 million dollars to run through this fingers faster than a steroid-pumped, bloodshot-eyed, Ben Johnson finished the 100-meter dash in 1987.  Buying a woman, you barely even know a 2 million dollar ring was not the business Mike!!  Now, look at him? Reminiscing about his former glory days from years gone by.

One thing that is very, very, true about human beings, and this goes for myself included, is that hindsight vision is always, ALWAYS 20-20.  Too bad life doesn’t work that way.  What trips me out about many black men, is that no matter how many times we see the same mistake being made, there’s always yet ANOTHER nigga ready to make the same mistake all over again.

Enter Floyd Mayweather Jr.  I guess he feels like he is impervious to the mistakes of his forebears.  Yet, here I am watching this nigga go in the same direction as Roy Jones Jr right before my eyes.  I really hope that Floyd can get out of the game a WINNER; and not end up a former shell of himself–A’LA Muhammad Ali, Mike Tyson, and Roy Jones.  It would be nice for a change, if I could just see a black man get the top and stay there; instead of always having to come CRASHING down to the ground like a Scud Missile.

And every time a black man comes crashing down, they always have the same sad story to tell: “Don’t wind up like me man!!” That’s why I am hoping will humble himself some for his own damn sake!!  He at least, needs to make amends with his father; to keep Karma from biting him on the ass.  Even though I hate this dude’s antics, I’d HATE to see him get beat by the likes of Manny Pacquaio, or Victor Ortiz.  These non-black men’s confidence will absolutely EXPLODE through the roof when it comes to black men.

The dude just don’t understand how much is at stake if someone bests him.

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Floyd, Be Careful…

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Or you may end up going the way of Roy Jones Jr.

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Floyd, like so many other great Black American boxers, seems to be headed in the same direction as others such as Roy Jones Jr., Muhammad Ali, and Mike Tyson.  I am really starting to believe that Floyd Jr. is feeling himself a little too much these days.  It’s one thing to trash-talk your opponent in the ring; as we all know, and understand the purpose behind it.  However, when you humiliate your father the way that he did all over National Television, he is setting himself for some major, MAJOR karma in the future if he doesn’t humble himself and change his attitude.

I am not saying this because I want to see the brother fall.  No, not at all.  In fact, I am saying this out of genuine concern because I see the direction he is heading in; and believe me, it’s going to be a sad sight when, and if, he does fall.  The backlash will be unbelievable; and I will wonder if he can hold up against all of it.  Because, one thing’s for certain, he won’t be receiving too much pity from most people.

Hell, with the way that he trash-talked his pops all on National Television, he is even beginning to lose the support of many Black Americans also.  I don’t care what anybody says, the way that he talked to his father was just UGLY; and even though his dad made plenty of mistakes in his life, that is absolutely NO WAY for a man to talk to his father.

You don’t embarrass your father like that on national television.  I don’t care what type of problem you have with him.  You keep things like that to yourself; not display it for the whole damn world to see.  In my personal opinion, Floyd not only embarrassed his father, he also embarrassed himself.

Also, if Floyd doesn’t really start to change his ways, he is going to get HUMBLED; and it won’t be coming from a man, it will be coming from the MOST HIGH; which, is something that no man wants.  You only have to take a look at Roy Jones to see what I am talking about there.  The thing that Floyd, like most people, seem to forget, is that person can go from being at the top to the absolute bottom in an INSTANT.

Look at Roy Jones?  The man had just won the heavyweight championship of the world, ONLY to be completely humbled by someone he LEAST expected.  Not only was Roy Jones humbled, he was PERMANENTLY humbled.  No matter how hard he tried, he could never regain the former glory that he once had; and if anyone saw how Roy Jones carried himself before that, you could see why.

Floyd, whether he realizes it or not, is headed in the same direction as Roy Jones; and if he doesn’t think that it can’t happen to him, then he is crazy.  Therefore, my advice to Floyd Joy Mayweather Jr., is to be careful; and to definitely change his ways, before the storm hits.

 

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