One of the biggest travesties to ever happen to Western Society, in my opinion, was to give women absolute power in the mating game. Western Society, is a society that caters almost completely to women; to the point where men aren’t even seen as human beings, but mere vessels put here to merely satisfy the whims and vagaries of the women in it. The sad thing about it, is that most women want it to STAY that way. It’s an imbalance that most women never seem to ever get sick of, and it’s an imbalance that will stay INTACT as long as Western Society still stands.
The reason being is because most men can NEVER compete with women in terms of desirability when it comes to the opposite sex; as women are FAR, FAR, more appealing to men, than men are to women. Hell, the average woman can pull a damn man without even trying. It may not be the one that they want, but they can get men rather easily. Whereas men, if they aren’t gifted with stellar good looks, need some sort of external display of success to get any type of damn love from a woman. It’s an imbalance that causes death and suicide in many men in this society; because without money or status, most men can NEVER hope to ever get love from a damn DECENT woman in this society.
Notice that I said DECENT right? When I say decent, I am talking about the kind of woman that you can marry: Chaste, In good shape, with a pleasant personality. These women drive a damn hard bargain in this society; regardless of what race you are as a man. However, when you are a damn regualar black man, they don’t just drive a hard bargain, the bargain is such that it makes the average everyday black man look like “Will Smith” did on the damn movie “The Legend Of Bagger Vance”.
It’s so hard for a regular black man to get a woman who’s decent in this society, that many of them just completely give up trying, and just settle on a single lifestyle altogether. Which, is EXACTLY what this society wants decent black men to do: waste way altogether. Most women, when they have the choice, try to go for the highest status male that they can possibly get; and many of them get dogged the hell out in the process of trying to find him. Because black men occupy the lowest social rung in all society, women try to FORCIBLY consign black men to leftovers, knowing damn well that many of the black men that they try to force into a gotdamn nigga box are worthy of FAR,FAR, more than what they are trying to assign to them.
I can’t tell you how many times, I have had women who when they were at the peak of their game, try to snub me like I was the late “Corey Haim” off of “Lucas”, only to come at me like a damn ravenous wolf when they were dogged the hell out through their exploits of trying to find a damn big-baller. The speed walking that I would see from women who thought that they were all that, slowed down to a damn snail’s pace when they felt like they had nothing to offer; as if I should have been ever so grateful to have their attention…Man, get the hell out of here!!
The thing that bothers me, as a black man, is the way women try to FORCE your ass to accept their worst, no matter how decent of a man you are, simply because they feel that’s all black men deserve. If you are a black man, that refuses to do so, they will try to starve you out completely, and I mean WOMEN OF ALL RACES WILL DO THIS, in a effort to get you to break down to damn nothing and accept garbage.
Throughout my life, I have had to fight a damn constant battle of women trying to turn me into a simp, by being mean as hell toward me when they felt like they had it going on, to coming at me like a damn ravenous wolf when they had it going off. That’s the story of the average black man. It takes a lot of strength not to give in; as most women in this society try to turn black men into low-life beggars; who beg for things that men of other races, who have higher social status, get for nothing.
Western Society has no balance whatsoever; and the black community is even worst than the rest of society when it comes to the mating process. Hell, most black men will NEVER know what it is to have a beautiful, high-quality black woman, and most have just given up trying; seeing as most of the black women who fall into this category are willing to give their all to men of other races, and black men their damn table scraps. Most black men have just said the hell with it, and left American Society altodamngether to find mates, and I don’t blame them one damn bit either.
American Society, is a society that is just too damn imbalanced when it comes to the mating process. Most women can never make up their damn mind as to what they want until they aren’t worth a damn themselves. Women know that men have a hard time finding mates in this society, and play their gotdamn options to the fullest. Hell, in this society, even a damn average woman thinks that she’s a dime-piece deserving of the finest of men…Pathetic.
The problem is that too damn many women think this way, to the point where they think that they can SNUB men who are TRULY on their level. Most women have no clue as to what level they are on; because men pursue them regardless for sexual gratification. Whereas, unless a man has money, or is extremely handsome, he will be largely IGNORED by all women until most women are so damn dogged out that their only hope is a damn good man.
Western Society, is a society, where men die all of the damn time from loneliness and grief; because they can’t get a damn single woman to love them. Hell, in biblical times, most men were given wives for a dowry price, and I see why. You give women the choice, and most men will become a bag of gotdamn bones waiting to be chosen. If you lined up 25 women, and 25 men, almost ALL women will go after 1 guy, and leave the other 24 behind.
There is no balance and all, and many men in this society suffer for it.
Like I said, the worst travesty in this society, in my opinion, was giving women ABSOLUTE power in the mating game, because by doing so, most men will never know what it is to even experience love from a damn woman in America; as the women have far too many options, and the men have far too FEW of them. Therefore, the men have to take what the hell they can get in order to have companionship at all.
My advice to other men who may be reading this: in order to combat this rampant problem in American Society, you better make yourself into a damn island, one that isn’t dependent on anyone else for companionship but YOU. Because, if you allow yourself to become solely dependent upon a woman for love, you will find yourself in a damn pine box. Get strong in God so that he will help you overcome the feeling of loneliness through prayer and supplication; because women in this society are not right in the damn head, and if you follow them, you won’t be right in the damn head either.
That is all.